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We have gathered some information that may help you to stabilise your symptoms and improve your quality of life in other ways. Topics include activity management, working with your doctor, financial assistance, and more. We will add to this over time, so please check back. Living with ME/CFS The best approach when learning to live with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis /Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is to implement regular rest and to prioritise what you spend your limited, faulty energy on – we call this ‘pacing’. This is understood to give you the best chance for improving. The aim of pacing is to minimise Post-Exertional Malaise (PEM) from occurring, to stabilise symptoms, and to avoid getting worse. It will take some time to explore: • what your activity limits are, • what activities you can manage and what you can’t, and • what approaches help and what don’t. Your energy and wellness levels may change over time, so what is manageable will change too. Unfortunately, there are no treatments that are proven to be completely effective for ME/CFS yet, and not everyone finds benefit from the same approaches. A silver lining of the COVID-19 pandemic is that there is more research underway into post-viral illness and this should bring insight and treatments for ME/CFS also. Despite the lack of evidence-based treatments, there are some supplements, medications, aids, and lifestyle changes available that may provide some relief from symptoms or improve your quality of life in other ways. We have provided information about what expert clinicians suggest and what the ME/CFS community have found helpful in the sections below and will add to this over time. Talk to one of our Registered Nurses and/or find a doctor you trust to work with you. They may be able to help with pain, sleep problems and orthostatic intolerance (problems with being upright) and managing food sensitivities, as well as arrangements for home care, financial support, and counselling. Please be aware that a lot of content online or in books is not evidence-based. More research is needed to fully understand the causes and best treatments for ME/CFS. DISCLAIMER: MECFS Canterbury does not provide recommendations for any treatments for your particular situation on this website. Any advice, either explicit or implied, is not intended to replace the qualified medical advice that is necessary for each individual. Please discuss any lifestyle and treatment changes with your doctor first. MECFS Canterbury does not accept any responsibility for any treatment undertaken by readers of any content or for any error or omission in connection with an article or content published on this website. Remember to give yourself permission to rest, practice pacing, accept offers of help, and to be kind to yourself. Activity Management READ MORE Working with your Doctor READ MORE Work and Income Assistance READ MORE Practical Supports READ MORE Lifehacks and Tips READ MORE Supplements and Treatments READ MORE Managing Specific Symptoms READ MORE Mental Wellbeing READ MORE Working with ME/CFS READ MORE How We Help READ MORE Easy and Ready-Made Meals READ MORE Crash Wear Merchandise READ MORE Discounts for our Community READ MORE

Complaint Process We are committed to providing appropriate and considerate support and advocacy for people affected by ME/CFS and to providing a positive working environment for our staff. We encourage anyone to get in touch with us to let us know if anything has not gone well so that we can put things right and improve for the future. We welcome this feedback in the form of a formal complaint, or as informal comments. Our definition of a complaint: An expression of dissatisfaction from an individual or a group with the standard of support, service, actions, policy, or position of MECFS Canterbury, or our employees or volunteers. How to complain: In the first instance, please contact the person that the complaint relates to. If the matter cannot be resolved, or if you would prefer, please prepare a written description of your complaint, and send to the Manager, or if the complaint relates to the Manager, send to the Chairperson. You will find our email and postal addresses on the Contact Section of our website. What to include in your complaint: What went wrong When and where it happened Who was involved What you want from your complaint Your name, address, and contact details (telephone and/or email). Unless you wish to remain anonymous and accept that this will result in limitations on our investigation and response. You have the right to expect that: Complaints will be treated with appropriate confidentiality. Information will only be shared with people necessary to complete the investigation into the complaint and to determine our response. You will always be treated with respect. At any point, all parties have the right to have their whānau support and/or supervisors and/or advocate present in any meetings related to the complaint. What happens when you complain? The person you have raised the complaint with will discuss the complaint with you within two working days of them receiving the complaint. Please be aware that the majority of our team work part time, so there may be a delay in your complaint being received. All complaints are reported to the Manager within 24 hours of receipt. For matters involving the Manager, the complaint will be reported to the Chairperson. A formal investigation and response process will be initiated if you or the person contacted require it: We may be in touch again to ascertain further information or facts and are likely to contact any other people involved. We will tell you when we plan to come back to you with a response. An independent mediator will be engaged if needed. We will provide a full and formal response in person and/or by letter if this is appropriate or requested. Our response will detail findings of our investigation and state what actions and changes have been put in place. If the matter is significant, the complaint and response will be tabled at the next Committee meeting in a confidential manner. What happens if I am not satisfied? If we are unable to resolve your complaint, you may take your complaint to the Health and Disability Commissioner or Charities Services .

Getting Diagnosed At this stage, there are no specific diagnostic tests available that can be done in a clinical setting to confirm ME/CFS. However, healthcare professionals can make a diagnosis by using the diagnostic criteria, excluding other possible conditions, and ensuring that post-exertional malaise (PEM) is present. VIEW THE DIAGNOSTIC CRITERIA Your doctor is likely to refer to the clinical advice for ME/CFS on the Health Pathways website provided by Te Whatu Ora | Health New Zealand and may: Ask about you and your family’s health history. Ask about anything you have tried that makes the symptoms better or worse. Suggest that you keep a diary of symptoms and activity. Carry out an examination to identify alternative underlying disorders. They may look for any weight changes, difficulty with self-care, and issues with heart rate and blood pressure when moving to an upright position, and also, check for lymphadenopathy, thyroid disease, cardiac or pulmonary disease, joint or connective tissue disease, and neurological issues such as myopathy and multiple sclerosis. Request baseline blood tests for CBC, CRP, ferritin, electrolytes, renal and liver function, calcium, magnesium, blood glucose/HbA1c, B12, vitamin D, thyroid function, coeliac antibodies. If your illness is post-viral, they may also test for Epstein-Barr virus, cytomegalovirus, and HIV. Depending on your symptoms, they may also test for immunoglobulins, antinuclear antibodies, rheumatoid titres, creatine kinase, and cortisol. Request an ECG and chest x-ray if you experience palpitations, chest pain or shortness of breath. Consider long COVID if your symptoms appear to have been triggered by COVID-19 infection. We have a lett e r that you can take to your GP to let them know about the new clinical guidelines for ME/CFS on the Health Pathways website. DOWNLOAD A LETTER FOR GPS Our Registered Nurse Service is available to support you when you are wondering if you have ME/CFS and are seeking a diagnosis. Our nurses work through the assessment process against the diagnostic criteria with you, and then, with your permission, can share the result with your GP. How we help For a comprehensive list of clinical primers and other resources for health professionals refer to: Link https://m.e.awareness.nz/resources-health-professionals/ PREVIOUS PAGE NEXT PAGE

Management approaches for ME/CFS include identifying the most problematic symptom first and exploring options for improvements, along with implementing pacing and activity management.​ We have collated some information for you. Managing Specific Symptoms We aim to collate information here to help you manage your ME/CFS and the specific symptoms that may be present, particularly as our team deliver presentations on these topics. DISCLAIMER: MECFS Canterbury does not provide recommendations for any treatments for your particular situation on this website. Any advice, either explicit or implied, is not intended to replace the qualified medical advice that is necessary for each individual. Please discuss any lifestyle and treatment changes with your doctor first. MECFS Canterbury does not accept any responsibility for any treatment undertaken by readers of any content or for any error or omission in connection with an article or content published on this website. Overview of ME/CFS and its Management We invite you to watch our presentation about Myalgic Encephalomyelitis / Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and its Management on our YouTube channel. This presentation covers: What we know about ME/CFS The diagnostic criteria for ME/CFS Impacts and severity spectrum Key management principles and approaches How to make a meaningful life Management approaches include identifying the most problematic symptom first and exploring options for improvements, along with implementing pacing and activity management. There is also a pdf of the slide deck available. Orthostatic Intolerance (OI) Orthostatic Inolerance (OI) is an umbrella term for several conditions in which symptoms are worsened by assuming and maintaining an upright posture. When someone with OI stands up or sits for too long, they may experience symptoms such as light-headedness, dizziness, spatial disorientation, feeling faint, sweating, headaches, nausea and palpitations. Many symptoms improve with lying down, although some take hours or days to resolve. People with ME/CFS may have low OI, or meet the criteria for the more severe Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS) or Neurally Mediated Hypotension (NMH). Diagnosis involves ruling out other causes, a Tilt Table or NASA Lean test, and assessments such as Hours of Upright Activity (HUA). OI symptoms is one of the most treatable symptoms associated with ME/CFS and it is usually possible to increase functional capacity through the following management approaches: Increase blood volume by drinking water and consuming more sodium (if safe for you to do so). Provide mechanical support by using compression garments and postural counter manoeuvres (movement that moves the blood up the legs to the heart). Make lifestyle adjustments such as avoiding overheating, alcohol, large meals. Introduce movement or gentle exercise done in a lying down or recumbent position first. We invite you to watch our talk about Orthostatic Intolerance (OI) and its Management on our YouTube channel. A pdf of the slide deck is also available. Further Reading Clinical Care Guide from Bateman Horne Centre, USA, a 98 page document published 2025. This covers the basics and common co-morbidities. Clinical Primer from IACFSME (International [Clinician] Association for CFS/ME), 2014. Particularly Section 5 Management and Treatment. Advice from ME Association UK, who are strongly evidence-based. They provide general guidance and leaflets covering various supplements, therapies and medications https://meassociation.org.uk/free-literature-downloads/ Visit our Links page for more information.

Donate We rely on grants and donations to fund our services because we do not currently receive any funding from the government's Health budget. Every dollar donated helps us to employ a skeleton part-time team and cover our operational costs. A one-off or regular donation helps us cover these example costs: $5 Posting our newsletter to a client who finds it easier to read a paper copy. $17 Monthly phone plan for one of our staff to call their clients. $20 Reimbursing staff for travel costs to visit one of their clients. $40 Purchasing a new book for our library. $60 Supporting a client to access benefits and other payments from Work and Income. $100 Venue hire and refreshments for one of our group meetings around the region. $250 Initial visit to a client by one of our Nurses, to explore diagnosis and symptom management, and to complete follow up referrals and a management plan. $400 Delivering an education session for health professionals or another organisation. $500 Supporting a student to remain at the Southern Health School for a year. $1800 Rent and utilities for our office for a month. Ways to Donate Internet Banking Donate directly to our bank account Westpac 03-0802-0060232-000 Our legal name is 'ME/CFS Canterbury / West Coast Charitable Trust' Please use our Donation form to let us know you have done so. This enables us to send you a donation tax receipt and to say thanks! DONATION FORM Debit or Credit Card We can also accept payment by Debit or Credit Card, and Google Pay. Use our Donation Form to access these payment options using our Stripe online payment facility. DONATION FORM Givealittle The Givealittle website enables donations to be made by credit card, internet banking, or Givealittle wallet. You choose the amount and the frequency (one-off, monthly, fortnightly, or weekly). You can also select whether your name or ‘guest donor’ appears against the donation. GIVEALITTLE WEBSITE Payroll Giving If you are wanting to make a regular donation, however small, the Payroll Giving facility is available to employees to make a donation through your employer’s payroll system. Donations made via Payroll Giving receive an immediate PAYE credit of 33% of the donation amount. This avoids the need for charities to generate Donation Tax Receipts and for the donor to collect and submit Donation Tax Receipts to the Inland Revenue Department. Talk to your employer to enter this scheme, or visit to https://www.ird.govt.nz/roles/employees/payroll-giving-as-an-employee find out more. You will need these details: Organisation Name with IRD is ‘ME/CFS Canterbury / West Coast Charitable Trust’ Charity registration number is CC32072. We have a bank account with Westpac 03-0802-0060232-000 Your employer will pass the donation to us, and let us know it is from Payroll Giving. Please let us know if you set Payroll Giving up, as we would appreciate the opportunity to say thanks. CONTACT US Donate Items We welcome donations of items for our use or for our book and equipment library, and also welcome items for resale on our Trade Me account. ENQUIRE ABOUT DONATING ITEMS

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Our Health Partners Since 2019, we have met regularly with managers at Te Whatu Ora (formerly CDHB, Canterbury District Health Board) to raise awareness of ME/CFS, discuss our services, develop educational opportunities for health professionals, and ensure that people with ME/CFS have access to standard services from the health sector when entry criteria is met. We have worked with the clinical editors of the HealthPathways, Allied Healthways and HealthInfo websites during this time to provide evidence-based information for medical professionals, allied health professionals and the public. As a result of our education programme and partnership with Te Whatu Ora - Waitaha (Health New Zealand - Canterbury), we have observed that more General Practitioners are comfortable assessing, diagnosing, and supporting people with ME/CFS. HealthPathways HealthPathways is a website that offers clinicians locally agreed information to make the right decisions together with patients, at the point of care. The guidance for ME/CFS is based on the IOM 2015 diagnostic criteria promoted by the CDC. Let your GP know that there is clinical guidance for ME/CFS on Health Pathways or give them a copy of our letter about it. HealthInfo HealthInfo is a health information website for the general public in parts of the South Island. The website has a mix of health information, including factsheets on different topics and descriptions of local health services and support organisations. It also has links to recommended websites for further reading and research. The information about ME/CFS on HealthInfo can be found here . Allied Healthways The Allied Healthways website provides guidance for allied health professionals such as physiotherapists, occupational therapists, pharmacists and psychologists. Pathways provide clear and concise guidance for assessing and managing a patient with a particular symptom or condition. Information about ME/CFS is included in the PhysioFITT programme and Chronic Fatigue topics. Our Funding Partners What we do is only made possible by the community trusts, gaming trusts, government agencies and individuals who have contributed financially over recent years to the operation of MECFS Canterbury. Please accept our gratitude for helping us to make a difference for our local ME/CFS community. Air Rescue Community Services COGS - Community Organisation Grants - Christchurch The Jansen Trust Mainland Foundation Rano Community Trust The Trust Community Foundation Aotearoa Gaming Trust COGS - Community Organisation Grants - West Coast Kiwi Gaming Foundation NZ Community Trust Rata Foundation Trillian Trust Christchurch Casino David Ellison Charitable Trust The Lion Foundation One Foundation Riccarton Rotary Trust Aoraki Christchurch City Council - Strengthening Commuunities Grant Grassroots Trust Lotteries Community Canterbury Pub Charity Roy Owen Dixey Trust West Coast Community Trust And individuals who support us with private donations Our Business Partners We are grateful to the companies who support us with discounted software or services.

It is incredibly challenging living with a disabling chronic illness like ME/CFS as it significantly reduces our options and the quality of our life. It is natural that we would grieve the losses and find it difficult to cope with at times, especially if we are very unwell and not receiving much support. There are services and strategies that will help you to cope. Mental Wellbeing It is incredibly challenging living with a disabling chronic illness like ME/CFS as it significantly reduces our options and the quality of our life. It is natural that we would grieve the losses and find it difficult to cope with at times, especially if we are very unwell and not receiving much support. Find and develop strategies that help you cope: Schedule in activities that you enjoy or that help you feel connected to others. Stress will worsen any illness, and ME/CFS is no exception, so look for ways to minimise stressors. Allocate time for friendships with people who understand and care. Explore practices like mindfulness and self-compassion (see Strategies section below). Talk to your doctor about accessing counselling or other mental health services (see section below). Consider coming along to our in-person and online meetings , or joining our Facebook support group , to connect you with people who understand about life with chronic illness. We offer some suggestions for accessing counselling and developing strategies below. There are a range of mental health helplines and support services available in New Zealand and many of them are free. Give yourself permission to use them if you need to. The Mental Health Foundation of NZ provides a list of support options here . Need to talk? Free call or text 1737 any time for support from a trained counsellor. The Health Info website provides information about 'Getting help for a mental health issue' from Health NZ. This describes some of the mental health supports available in the South Island, including those available through your GP. To see a counsellor privately, you may be eligible for financial support to cover the fees from Work and Income, even if you are already receiving a Disability Allowance (see section below). Accessing mental wellbeing support Questions to ask a prospective therapist It is appropriate to ask a prospective service or therapist some questions before you start working with them, or during the first session. Consider asking: Ask what they understand about ME/CFS, or the chronic illnesses you have, to confirm that it matches current international guidance e.g. are they aware of the ME/CFS guidance on Health Info , from NICE (UK) or CDC (USA)? Are they familiar with the impacts of living with an invisible chronic illness which changes daily life and has no approved treatment? Describe what you are wanting support with and ask them to confirm they have relevant experience and interest in supporting you. You may have identified that you want support with issues, such as stress and uncertainty, adjustment, stigma, hopelessness, sleep problems, relationship challenges, grief and loss, identity, parenting, anxiety, and other mental health problems. Confirm what the funding arrangements are for the therapy. Confirm that the therapy can be offered in a format that meets the severity of your illness e.g. telehealth, phone, their office, your home, text. Wellbeing services through your medical centre Many General Practice clinics now have Health Improvement Practitioners (HIPs), Health Coaches and Support Workers through the Access and Choice programme . These team members are available to deliver a wide range of mental wellbeing support and tools, without long waits and often on the same day, and the services are free. Health Improvement Practitioners (HIPs) are experienced mental health clinicians who work with people of all ages and their whānau. They may have a degree in psychology, psychotherapy, mental health nursing, social work, occupational therapy or be a DAPAANZ registered counsellor. HIPs help people with any issues impacting on their health and wellbeing. Sessions are brief (15-30 minutes), normally in-person, and focus on what is important to you, today. At your first session you will get some strategies and a plan. There are no limits to how often you can see the HIP. Talk to your GP or ring your medical centre to find out the best way to get seen by a HIP who has an understanding of ME/CFS and life with chronic illness. View the Map of practices in Canterbury that have a HIP available. Other Brief Intervention Talking Therapy (BITT) options are also usually available. Ask your medical centre to refer you for free short-term support with your mental wellbeing. BITT therapists are registered mental health professionals and telehealth options may be available. Counselling by telehealth with Pūawaitanga If you are wanting to try some talk therapy, you may want to consider the short-term counselling offered via telehealth by Pūawaitanga. It is free for people over 18 who are on a Work & Income benefit or who hold a Community Services Card. If you don’t meet the criteria for free services, you can also pay to access the service. The sessions are offered through phone or video call between 9am-9pm, 7 days a week. There is no waitlist and first appointment is usually within five days. The number of sessions is flexible, depending on need. Pūawaitanga have confirmed they have counsellors who have experience offering support for long term health concerns, and that this can be requested in the referral. Self-refer through their website www.puawaitanga.nz or call 0800 782 999. Ask to be assigned with one of their trained professionals who is familiar with the impacts and grief of chronic illness. Counselling for under 25s with Gumboot Friday Gumboot Friday provides two free counselling sessions for anyone aged 25 and under who needs the support of a qualified practitioner, including counsellors, psychologists, psychotherapists, and art therapists. You can search their directory and select up to three counsellors who you’d be willing to talk to and then send them a message. Sessions can be face to face, online or by phone. “Remember, there’s no shame in asking for help – it’s just a conversation.” Counselling from Anxiety NZ Anxiety New Zealand offers a range of accessible mental health services including a low-cost online counselling service for young people (11+) and adults who are navigating mild to moderate mental health challenges. This counselling offers a safe and supportive space to explore personal challenges, build resilience, and achieve positive goals and emotional wellbeing. It's there for you if you are experiencing anxiety, grief, life transitions, or stress. (It's not limited to only supporting people experiencing anxiety.) If you are on a low-income you may be able to access the counselling for free. Appointments are available Monday to Saturday, including after hours. Are you feeling stressed or anxious now? Anxiety NZ also offers a free 24/7 helpline ... "Here for you, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Give us a call" on 0800 ANXIETY (0800 269 438). Aoake te Rā Aoake te Rā , also known as the Bereaved by Suicide Service, is a free service that gives 6 to 10 free sessions to support individuals and whānau to navigate life after suicide loss, whether recent or a long time ago. If you have lost someone to suicide, it may be impacting your physical health as well. Experienced therapists can support you to honour the grief and to explore finding a place for it. Private Counselling and Psychologists You can find a counsellor through the directory from the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC ). You can search for counsellors in your region and what they specialise in e.g. chronic illness, chronic fatigue syndrome. Most counsellors can offer telehealth sessions. You may have to pay part or all the cost. Health Psychologists seek to help people cope with the emotional and psychological impacts of adjusting to living with chronic physical health problems, and to foster hope for the future. Search the NZ Psychological Society directory or use a search engine to find the websites of psychologists. Employee Assistance Programmes (EAP) Some employers offer employee assistance programmes (EAP) to their employees and this may also be available to family members. An EAP is a confidential service that your employer pays for to give employees access to qualified, registered and experienced professionals. An EAP therapist can help you talk through issues affecting your wellbeing. Talk to your manager or human resources representative about whether your employer offers an EAP. Funding from Work and Income You may be eligible to apply to have the costs of ongoing mental health support covered by the Disability Allowance (DA) or the Temporary Additional Support (TAS) allowance from Work and Income. You don’t have to be on a benefit to qualify for the DA, but you and your partner cannot earn more than set income limits. The TAS has both income and asset tests and needs to be applied for every 3 months. Further Information About Services The Family Services Directory from MSD also lists a range of mental health services. Additional resources from the Mental Health Foundation of NZ include: Support for Myself is a list of resources including strategies for recovery. Accessing Mental Health Services covers finding a GP, community mental health services, how to find a therapist or professional, and finding a therapist privately, and community support groups. Developing strategies for mental wellbeing Reasons for prioritising self-care strategies Looking after our mental wellbeing often helps our symptoms to stablise and our health to improve. Low mood can sometimes be part of post-exertional malaise (PEM), so if the PEM episodes can be reduced, your mood may improve as your symptoms become more stable. Use our guidance for Activity Management to pace as well as possible given your circumstances. With ME/CFS and Long Covid, our autonomic nervous system might become dysfunctional, or dysregulated. This autonomic system includes our sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight) and parasympathetic nervous system (calm/rest/digest). Your body may have trouble moving into the rest state, which can make your body feel that it is in danger or anxious. Along with our tips at the top of this page, it can be really helpful using mindfulness, breathing, gentle stretches or relaxation techniques during each day to calm down your nervous system. Self-directed Online Courses and Resources There are many courses and online resources that you can explore at your own pace. A selection of courses... Free courses and resources for New Zealanders covering anxiety, depression, and more www.justathought.co.nz/courses Free and paid content from Breathworks, including mindfulness for chronic illness www.breathworks-mindfulness.org.uk/listing/category/self-guided-courses Other resources... The NZ Health App library from Healthify , highlights apps for mental health and wellbeing, mindfulness, and more. Some apps are free, others have a cost. Search our library catalogue for books that might support your mental wellbeing. We can post books out to you at not cost. Self-Compassion Self-compassion is a vital practice that can help us to reduce stress and increase our ability to enjoy what we can in difficult circumstances. Self-compassion is treating ourselves with the same care, kindness and concern that we would give a friend, when they are in pain or difficulty. It involves exploring soothing touch and soft vocalisation which release oxytocin and endorphins and help to reduce cortisol and relieve pain. Self-compassion also involves setting appropriate boundaries to protect our property, our time, or our emotional, mental and physical well-being. Kate Brandram-Adams, from Mindfulness North Canterbury, presented a workshop for us on this topic. Watch the recording here . For more information: Dr Kristin Neff website: www.self-compassion.org/self-compassion-practices Mindfulness Mindfulness is a practice that can help us to cope with the impacts of living with a chronic illness such as ME/CFS. It may enable us to notice changes to our symptoms sooner and give us an opportunity to bring a more compassionate response, rather than pushing through. It can also be useful for taking our attention away from our symptoms and may help to calm our autonomic nervous system (ANS). Di Robertson, a mindfulness mentor, has previously led a presentation and practice session for us. Watch this on YouTube. For more information: Mindfulness on Healthify healthify.nz/hauora-wellbeing/m/mindfulness Mindfulness Apps: www.headspace.com www.insighttimer.com Mindfulness Training App: www.themindfulnessapp.com Courses: MBSR (Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction ) Finding Resilience Elizabeth Hamilton, a social worker and counsellor, has talked to us about finding resilience when debilitating illness brings many changes to our lives, along with loss, and grief. Being aware of our circle of control and approaches for living through and with loss and grief can make a difference. We invite you to watch the recording of Elizabeth's session on YouTube. Te Whare Tapa Whā Te Whare Tapa Whā is a wellbeing model developed by leading Māori health advocate Sir Mason Durie in 1984. The model describes health and wellbeing as a wharenui/meeting house with four walls. These walls represent taha wairua/spiritual wellbeing, taha hinengaro/mental and emotional wellbeing, taha tinana/physical wellbeing and taha whānau/family and social wellbeing. Our connection with the whenua/land forms the foundation. When all these areas are in balance, we thrive. When one or more of these is out of balance our wellbeing is impacted. Occupational Therapist Sarah Phipps led a presentation and workshop for us and highlighted some specific strategies for people with ME/CFS, including finding ways to live with loss. You can watch the presentation on our YouTube channel.

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Share your voice < Back Associated New Zealand ME Society (ANZMES) Survey 2026 19 Jan 2026 Share your voice ANZMES Survey 2026. “ANZMES is changing. As we transition to a Charitable Trust and look toward the future, we want to ensure our goals align with the reality of what you expect. We are asking for your help to rank our priorities. We would greatly appreciate if you could please take 5–10 minutes to fill out this survey. Your input is important in shaping the future of ANZMES. Responses are due Monday 2nd February 2026 .” ___________________________ This survey includes 10 tick box questions, 2 short answer questions, and space for you to give other feedback. We encourage you to add your voice and provide descriptive feedback in Q.12 to help ANZMES reflect and formulate future planning as the national advisory for ME/CFS. e.g. ✦ What have you been grateful for? ✦ Did you know that ANZMES has developed material for GPs? ✦ How has your GP responded to any ANZMES material that you may have shared? ✦ Are there any improvements that you would like to see to their website? ✦ Have you had any interactions with ANZMES, and if so, how have these been? Find the survey online here Previous Next

Help a friend with ME/CFS If you know someone who lives with ME/CFS, your help and support can make an important difference to their lives. Ask them what would make things easier for them, and what support they would like. Perhaps prepare a meal, provide quiet company, help with housework or maintenance, or pay a bill. If you invite them to an event, consider how to reduce the energy required of them, provide a quiet space to rest, and be aware that they may need to cancel on the day if they are too unwell. Believe them. Learn about their experience and the illness. Remember to manage the support you give around your own needs. Possible next steps: Support your friend to join us so that they can receive our services. FILL OUT OUR MEMBERSHIP FORM Have any questions? Please reach out to us. CONTACT US Guidance for hosting and gifts: